I know nothing of fraternities and sororities and
while the university where I work has Greek life, it does not have houses for
such organizations. That being said, I have seen a frat house or two… and a sorority
house or two. While I did not see the inside of the house, the garden was
stunning and not at all what comes to mind when I consider college student housing.
I’m calling this the memorial gardens at the Kappa
Kappa Gamma house at The College of William & Mary but the memorial marker
reads a bit differently. I’m not certain how the Greek life connects (and
I honestly don’t care) and this post is not about that.
It is very much how a garden becomes its own type of
cemetery. Now if I said to the girls living in the house that they’re basically
living right next to a cemetery, I’m sure that they’d be a little creeped out. Fortunately (and by that I mean *unfortunately*),
many students including those who “know the girls that live in the house” and
were quickly walking through while we were gazing longingly are completely
unaware (because I asked) that this is a memorial garden with no fewer than a
half dozen plagues.When we pointed out a few, they seemed just as surprised as if I had said, "see those beautiful flowers." They weren't paying any attention to this special place.
This garden is on private property and we didn’t ask
to enter. My fella said that the signs and memorial markers invited us. Good enough for me. There
are gardeners who show great attention and care to the plants, flowers, and
trees in this garden that it is a shame that the young college students seemed
to show little care about it. I was happy to see that on our walk back by the
garden there was an older woman sitting on one of the benches reading.
I don’t know who Gregory, Carol, Josephine, Anne or Loy were
and I’m completely unfamiliar with the Berkeley Garden Club, but I agree that “a
garden is a friend you can visit anytime.” It is a place where we can remember
and show respect to those who came before us if only we can pause for a moment.
Memorial gardens are a lovely idea!
ReplyDeleteI really like the idea of creating a beautiful space for one's loved ones who have passed.
DeleteAbsolutely beautiful! This is the kind of memorial I would like someday.
ReplyDeleteIt is stunning!
DeleteAwesome and lovely! This is similar to what I'm trying to do with my memorial pet garden. Wish I had all that space!
ReplyDeleteMe too! I'm trying to let the essence of these gardens soak in so I can transfer mine on a smaller scale.
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